The greatest advantage we have as women is our femininity, and we should use it - not as a weapon but as an asset. Retinolla We can of course be aggressive and domineering at times, but we must never lose sight of our own persona, attractiveness and natural gentleness. Men shave, use cologne and have their hair cut, and are not considered frivolous for doing so. If we as women can give pleasure to other people by our appearance, who is to say we are not serious?Exercise regularly. You need to get physically active. Exercise for at last 30 minutes a day to relieve stress and increase all-over body conditioning.